The first question most parents ask is simply: where is my child, and when can they come home. Those are the right questions, and they have concrete answers.
1. Find out where your child is being held
Ask which agency made the arrest, where the child is being held, and what allegation was recorded. Write down names and times.
2. Stop the questioning
State clearly that your child will not answer questions and that you are retaining counsel. Then stop talking. Nothing said afterward helps.
3. Prepare for the release decision
Whether a child goes home often depends on what the family can show about supervision, school, and stability. Gathering that early is useful.
Frequently asked questions
Should I let my child explain their side to the officer?
No. Explanations become statements, and statements become evidence. Counsel can present context safely later.